부록4 결혼식 모범
결혼식은 하나님 앞에서 행하는 거룩한 예식이므로 단정하게 진행되어야 한다. 또한 순서를 통해 성경적인 결혼의 의미가 잘 드러나야 한다. 순서는 주례 목사가 아래의 모범을 토대로 적절히 배치하여 사용하되, 시간이 여유로운 교회당용과 시간 안배가 필요한 예식장용으로 나눠서 상황에 따라 활용할 수 있다. 예식장의 경우 30분 이내에 모든 순서를 마쳐야 하기에 핵심적인 순서를 제외하고는 생략할 수 있다. 단, 권면, 서약, 공포는 결코 빠져서는 안 된다.
교회당용
<1부 예식>
예식 선언 ························································ 주례목사
결혼의 의미 설명 ························································ 주례목사
신랑 입장 ························································ 신랑
신부 입장 ························································ 신부
찬양 ························································ 다같이
기도 ························································ 맡은이
성경낭독 ························································ 주례목사
권면 ························································ 주례목사
신랑신부에게 권면
양가 부모에게 권면
증인에게 권면
서약 ························································ 신랑 신부
신랑OOO, 그대는 여기에 있는 신부OOO를 그대의 정당한 아내로 맞이하기로 주님 앞에서 또한 여기에 모인 증인들 앞에서 서약하십니까? 그대는 이 사람을 신실하게 사랑하고 지도하며 보호하고 부양하며 부부의 도리와 정조를 지키기로 서약하십니까? 또한 이 사람을 결코 버리지 않고 기쁠 때나 슬플 때나 살림이 넉넉하거나 가난하거나 건강하거나 병들거나 죽음이 그대들을 나누기까지는 언제든지 거룩한 복음을 따라서 거룩함 가운데서 진실하게 함께 살 것을 서약하십니까?
신부OOO, 그대는 여기에 있는 신랑OOO를 그대의 정당한 남편으로 맞이하기로 주님 앞에서 또한 여기에 모인 증인들 앞에서 서약하십니까? 그대는 이 사람을 사랑하고 복종하며 도와주고, 부부의 도리와 정조를 지키기로 서약하십니까? 또한 이 사람을 결코 버리지 않고 기쁠 때나 슬플 때나 살림이 넉넉하거나 가난하거나 건강하거나 병들거나 죽음이 그대들을 나누기까지는 언제든지 거룩한 복음을 따라서 거룩함 가운데서 진실하게 함께 살 것을 서약하십니까?
축복 기도 ························································ 주례 목사
성혼 공포 ························································ 주례 목사
신랑 OOO 씨와 신부 OOO 씨가 부부가 된 것을, 한 몸이 된 것을, 하나님과 증인 앞에서 내가 성부와 성자와 성령의 이름으로 공포하노라.
“이제 둘이 아니요 한 몸이니 그러므로 하나님이 짝지어 주신 것을 사람이 나누지 못할지니라”(마 19:6). 아멘.
찬양 ························································ 다같이
양가 부모에게 인사 ························································ 신랑 신부
하객에게 인사 ························································ 신랑 신부, 양가부모
결혼 행진 ························································ 신랑 신부
<2부 축하>
축가 (1)
축가 (2)
사진촬영
예식장용
<1부 예식>
예식 선언 ························································ 주례목사
신랑 입장 ························································ 신랑
신부 입장 ························································ 신부
찬양 ························································ 다같이
성경봉독과 권면 ························································ 주례목사
서약 ························································ 신랑 신부
축복 기도 ························································ 주례 목사
성혼 공포 ························································ 주례 목사
<2부 축하>
축가
양가 부모 및 하객에게 인사 ···································· 신랑 신부
결혼 행진 ························································ 신랑 신부
사진촬영